Tuesday, April 18, 2006

here I go again......

Unlike some of you.....I love to take these silly online tests! I got this one from Deadly Female, and thought I'd give it a go.
According to this test, I don't fit neatly into a category
--all together now:
"Duh!"
So, I've reviewed both categories:
7. The Adventurers are energetic, lively, and optimistic. They want to contribute
to the world
8. The Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective
-- and smooshed them as I saw fit. I call the new (!) category
THE ASSERTIVE ADVENTURER
(the color-coded lines indicate which "category" it comes from.

How to Get Along with an Assertive Adventurer
Give me companionship, affection, and freedom.
Engage with me in stimulating conversation and laughter.
Be responsible for youself. I dislike clingy or needy people.

Don't tell me what to do.
Be vulnerable and share your feelings.
Give me space to be alone.
Hmmm.....obviously you must relate to my more "adventurous" side! But I see how "fence straddling" that can be: how can I expect companionship and space to be alone? How can I expect you to be vulnerable, but not appear needy? Geez, no wonder I ain't dating....

What I Like About Being an Assertive Adventurer
being independent and self-reliant
being able to take charge and meet challenges head on
being courageous, straightforward, and honest
getting all the enjoyment I can out of life

being optimistic and not letting life's troubles get me down
being outspoken and outrageous. It's part of the fun.
having the guts to take risks and to try exciting adventures

having such varied interests and abilities
...even though these traits come from two different categories - I'm drawn to their similarities: outspoken and straightforward. courageous and guts. optimistic and enjoyment.

What's Hard About Being an Assertive Adventurer

being restless and impatient with others' incompetence
sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it

never forgetting injuries or injustices
not having enough time to do all the things I want
feeling confined when I'm in a one-to-one relationship
ah-ha!! And here is the bitter pill of APj! We see the ugly "Assertive" side of me: I find it hard to let the hurts go. I try to throw that baggage over the side of the boat (or out the door of an airplane!) but find myself diving (out of the boat or plane) to retrieve it. But it helps to have friends that remind me to Let Go.......

Insightful, eh? Let me know what YOU think.....

11 comments:

lecram sinun said...

Let go.

lecram sinun said...

just a reminder.

Lelly said...

I'm scared...and confused?? OH YES I AM!...lets explore those feelings...

Solitaire said...

I think it's very much you and I think there's some good insight there...

The Wedding Date philosophy: "Every woman is in the relationship status that they want to be in." If you want someone, go get him and allow yourself to be with him. That hardest thing to do is let go of the pain, but trust me, once you do it's worth it! :-)

Love ya babe!

The Village Idiot said...

ok I have to ask

Horney Gorilla?

The Village Idiot said...

Hey!

Thanks for the definitions, Its a good day, I learned something new!!

KFarmer said...

Great test- I guess none of us fit neatly into any catagory.

Thanks for the dream help. I am never too good at figuring those things out, but I sure have some doozies.

airplanejayne said...

lecram -- thanks as always and again for reminding me. I know, I know, I'm sure it's getting old.....but I'm glad you're still reminding me. :)

lelly -- scared and confused? you? hmph! coulda fooled me! you come across as very confident!

sol - thanks for the support. I get the whole wanting someone, it's just the going-and-getting-him-and-the-allowing/doing thing that I don't quite get. Cheesy-peezy, the last time I was dating Depeche Mode was cool.

what's that? They're cool again? well, then maybe....
:)

Solitaire said...

That would be totally awesome! I'd love for you to be there! :-)

Solitaire said...

That's so awesome! Thanks for coming last night, the audience was great last night! LOL...

HHNT!

lime said...

i think i took this one a while ago and it didn't make sense to me, but it was fun. thx for sharing and for the well wishes you left at my place